I started holidays from work on December 27th. The night I returned home after my last day at work for the year consisted of one end of year party. Here’s the rundown.
Dec 27th – end of year party
Dec 28th – end of year party
Dec 29th – drinking with a friend
Dec 30th – dinner with work colleagues, end of year party
Dec 31st – New Years Eve party with friends followed by a follow-up party at my house that finished at 5am
In other words, the fact that I have been able to sleep more than usual has been very handy.
But for now it’s time to focus on what has passed and what I have missed.
It has been eight months since I moved to Japan. The time has flown by at a speed that can only be described as Ludicrous Speed.
That’s not a reference to the rapper, Ludacris, by the way, it’s a Spaceballs quote. It has been so long since I’ve watched Spaceballs. I’m sad about this fact.
So I’m going to keep this post short and sweet.
Many people in my life back home in Australia has gone through a rough time of it while I have been away. My time in Japan has not been without its tests, trials and tribulations, but none of it weighs anywhere close to the hardship some people in my life have gone through back home.
Facing adversity and tragedy is never easy. It doesn’t get any easier as you get older, either. It effect, if anything, compounds. Because as we age, we gain experience and realise that the connections we make in life are the most precious things we have.
People and places can always change, but family is our connection to a shared heritage. We’re all going somewhere or doing something, but there’s always someone to remind us of where we came from.
I’ve felt the effects of three losses in the last year where the best I could do was type words to friends and family via this keyboard. This has hurt me more than words can express – not being able to be there for the people that I care about the most to support them through some of the toughest times in their respective lives.
So this post is dedicated to the lives that did not get to see 2014 and all the potential it can hold.
Such a tiring year. Your friend, Peppe, and Louise! They all are missed by all their family and friends- and it is hard at times when other things come so quickly that you can’t even grieve properly before decisions must be made..thanks Paul as even when you are far away geographically you always manage to be close & supportive by sending ideas in words or messages..:) that said, of course your surprise trip home was not just supportive…it was fantastic! Thanks for being ‘there’ even when you’re not here????? Tired of watching grammar and making sense…day 1 back! Luv Mum